What’s Your Unique Dating Syle?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  When you’re interested in someone, your first instinct is to…

  • A.
    Analyze whether they’re “the one” before engaging
  • B.
    Observe quietly and pray before doing anything
  • C.
    Feel excited but unsure how to move
  • D.
    Be friendly and intentional pretty quickly
  • E.
    Look for a sign that they’re interested first
• 2.
  Your biggest dating frustration is…

  • A.
    I keep waiting and nothing happens
  • B.
    I meet people, but none feel right
  • C.
    I overthink everything and miss opportunities
  • D.
    I attract interest but it rarely goes anywhere
  • E.
    I like people more than they like me
• 3.
  How do you feel about initiating dates or conversations?

  • A.
    I’ll initiate if I feel safe emotionally
  • B.
    I hesitate because I don’t trust my judgment
  • C.
    It feels risky—I’d rather wait
  • D.
    I’m comfortable initiating, but not chasing
  • E.
    I want to initiate but freeze up
• 4.
  In dating, you tend to prioritize…

  • A.
    Chemistry and momentum
  • B.
    Compatibility and long-term potential
  • C.
    Spiritual alignment
  • D.
    Clarity and reassurance
  • E.
    Emotional connection
• 5.
  When a connection doesn’t work out, you usually think…

  • A.
    "I should’ve handled that differently”
  • B.
    “On to the next—lesson learned”
  • C.
    “Maybe it just wasn’t God’s will”
  • D.
    “I knew something felt off”
  • E.
    "What did I do wrong?"
• 6.
  Your friends would describe your dating style as…

  • A.
    Selective and guarded
  • B.
    Patient but passive
  • C.
    Thoughtful but hesitant
  • D.
    Caring but cautious
  • E.
    Confident and engaging
• 7.
  The statement that resonates most with you:

  • A.
    “I don’t want to waste time.”
  • B.
    “I’m ready to move differently.”
  • C.
    “I don’t want to get hurt.”
  • D.
    “I just need more confidence.”
  • E.
    “I don’t want to force anything.”
• 8.
  Deep down, your biggest fear in dating is…

  • A.
    Choosing wrong
  • B.
    Rejection
  • C.
    Embarrassment
  • D.
    Settling
  • E.
    Moving ahead of God

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  🟣 The Watcher

  “Faithful, patient… and often waiting too long.”Your Dating Style: You believe deeply in God’s timing and don’t want to force relationships. You observe, pray, and wait for clarity before acting.Strengths:✔ Spiritually grounded✔ Values purpose over impulse✔ Loyal and steadyBlind Spots:⚠ Confusing passivity with faith⚠ Missing opportunities due to hesitation⚠ Waiting for certainty that never comesYour Next Move: God often moves after obedience. Learning how to initiate wisely—without fear or guilt—is your breakthrough.
• 2.
  🔵 The Feeler

  “Heart-led, relational, and emotionally aware.”Your Dating Style: You value emotional connection and want to feel safe before moving forward.Strengths:✔ Deeply empathetic✔ Emotionally available✔ Intentional about connectionBlind Spots:⚠ Over-attaching too early⚠ Taking rejection personally⚠ Prioritizing feelings over discernmentYour Next Move: You don’t need to harden your heart—you need better boundaries and strategy.
• 3.
  🔴 The Initiator

  “Bold, confident, and not afraid to move.” Your Dating Style: You’re comfortable starting conversations and taking the lead. You believe momentum matters. Strengths: ✔ Courageous ✔ Clear communicator ✔ Action-oriented Blind Spots: ⚠ Moving faster than clarity ⚠ Attracting people who enjoy attention but not commitment ⚠ Carrying the relationship alone Your Next Move: Winning for you looks like discernment, not more effort.
• 4.
  🟢 The Thinker

  “Self-aware, thoughtful… and often stuck in your head.”Your Dating Style: You analyze, reflect, and replay scenarios before making a move.Strengths: ✔ Insightful ✔ Intentional ✔ Growth-mindedBlind Spots: ⚠ Overthinking instead of acting ⚠ Needing reassurance before risk ⚠ Missing moments waiting for confidenceYour Next Move: Confidence comes after action—not before.
• 5.
  🟡 The Evaluator

  “Selective, intentional, and highly discerning.”Your Dating Style: You’re clear on what you want and don’t entertain anything that feels misaligned. Strengths: ✔ High standards ✔ Long-term vision ✔ Strong boundaries Blind Spots: ⚠ Guardedness that blocks connection ⚠ Dismissing potential too quickly ⚠ Fear of choosing wrong Your Next Move: Discernment works best when paired with openness and courage.