The Restoration Formation Assessment

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Quiz Questions

1.
My identity feels stable even when my marriage status shifts.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
2.
I no longer panic when communication changes.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
3.
I can sense God’s guidance without needing constant signs.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
4.
I do not interpret delay as abandonment.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
5.
My worth is not tied to whether restoration has manifested yet.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
6.
I can obey God even when outcomes remain unclear.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
7.
I feel emotionally anchored more often than reactive.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
8.
I do not rehearse worst-case scenarios daily.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
9.
I am no longer striving spiritually to force movement.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
10.
When disappointment surfaces, I address it instead of suppressing it.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
11.
I can experience silence from my spouse without spiraling.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
12.
I no longer feel urgency to fix everything.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
13.
I can separate my emotions from God’s character.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
14.
I have confronted my own unbelief honestly.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
15.
I have withdrawn internal judgments against my spouse.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
16.
My prayers come from mercy more than accusation.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
17.
I am not secretly trying to prove I was right.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
18.
I am not collecting emotional debt.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
19.
I have repented for my own contribution without self-condemnation.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
20.
I can bless my spouse even when I disagree with them.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
21.
I feel clean in my intercession.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
22.
I have identified unhealthy relational patterns in my own history.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
23.
I no longer normalize instability.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
24.
I have consciously renounced beliefs like “men don’t stay” or “marriage is fragile.”
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
25.
I do not feel responsible for fixing generational dysfunction.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
26.
I can distinguish between spiritual authority and control.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
27.
I recognize triggers in myself before reacting.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
28.
I believe patterns can be interrupted.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
29.
If restoration stabilized today, I feel emotionally prepared.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
30.
I am building my life from peace, not pressure.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
31.
I am preparing wisely rather than fantasizing about reunion.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
32.
I could handle blended family complexity with maturity.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure/Does Not Apply
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
33.
I would remain steady even if timelines stretched.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
34.
I am no longer dependent on momentum to sustain hope.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree
35.
I feel ready to steward something stable, not just receive it.
- A.
  1 = Strongly Disagree
- B.
  2 = Disagree
- C.
  3 = Unsure / In Process
- D.
  4 = Agree
- E.
  5 = Strongly Agree

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Wilderness
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Identity Before OutcomeThis is the beginning of separation, when everything feels uncertain and disorienting. God begins rebuilding identity and dependence on Him rather than the marriage itself. In this stage, the focus is learning surrender and trusting God even when the path forward is unclear.Focus: Identity, surrender, and learning to follow God's leadership.
2.
Refining &Testing
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Heart, Soul, and Strength RevealedAs the journey continues, deeper beliefs, fears, and patterns begin to surface. God uses this season to expose what is in the heart and refine faith so that it is no longer dependent on circumstances. This stage often feels unstable, but it is where spiritual maturity and emotional strength are formed.Focus: Refinement, confronting patterns, and strengthening faith.
3.
Mercy Threshold
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Authority Through MercyThis stage represents a turning point. Instead of striving, proving, or holding onto accusation, the heart begins to release judgment and move toward humility and mercy. Crossing this threshold restores spiritual authority because prayers begin flowing from alignment rather than frustration.Focus: Repentance, releasing accusation, and realigning the heart with God.
4.
Preparation for Promise
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Capacity Before RestorationGod begins preparing the internal and practical foundations needed to sustain restoration. Peace grows even when circumstances are still unclear, and life starts to be built from stability rather than urgency. This stage is about becoming ready to steward what God may restore.Focus: Building capacity, emotional stability, and readiness for restoration.
5.
Stewarding Restoration
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Living SteadfastRestoration is not just received—it must be cultivated and protected. In this stage, the focus shifts from waiting to stewarding a healthy covenant with wisdom, humility, and maturity. The work becomes sustaining what God has rebuilt.Focus: Fruits of the Spirit - love, joy, peace, patience, goodness, kindness, gentleness, faithfulness, and self-control.

The Restoration Formation Assessment

Every restoration journey includes seasons of formation. This assessment helps identify where you may currently be in the process—from the wilderness of separation to the stewardship of restoration—so you can better understand what God may be developing in this season.

Quiz Questions

Quiz Outcomes