What Wound is Secretly Blocking Your Business?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  When it comes to money in your business, what feels most true?

  • A.
    I feel like I constantly need to prove my value through hard work
  • B.
    When things start working, I sometimes pull back or lose momentum
  • C.
    I feel uncomfortable receiving money or charging higher prices
  • D.
    I know my work is powerful, but I struggle to be visible online
  • E.
    I hesitate to own my authority or fully lead
  • F.
    I find myself second guessing my decisions constantly
  • G.
    I often feel like I'm not ready yet to charge more or grow
• 2.
  What pattern do you notice most in your business?

  • A.
    I hold back from posting or sharing my true voice
  • B.
    I give a lot to clients and rarely prioritise my own financial growth
  • C.
    I keep learning instead of launching
  • D.
    I overdeliver and work far more than what I'm paid for
  • E.
    I keep changing strategies or business direction
  • F.
    My income goes through growth then sudden dips
  • G.
    I struggle to confidently sell my offers
• 3.
  When an opportunity for bigger success appears, what do you notice?

  • A.
    I wonder if I'm actually capable of sustaining it
  • B.
    Part of me feels excited but another part feels unsafe
  • C.
    I start asking everyone else what they think
  • D.
    I feel guilt around receiving more money
  • E.
    I feel like I need to work even harder to deserve it
  • F.
    I worry about stepping into too much power or responsibility
  • G.
    I feel exposed or worried about what people might think
• 4.
  Which statement feels most familiar?

  • A.
    "I don’t want to be too much online."
  • B.
    "I don’t want to come across as pushy or dominant."
  • C.
    "I’ll rest after I achieve more."
  • D.
    "I need more experience before I charge more."
  • E.
    "What if success changes my life in ways I can't control?"
  • F.
    "Maybe someone else knows the right strategy."
  • G.
    "Money shouldn’t be my main focus."
• 5.
  If your business suddenly doubled in income, your first feeling would be:

  • A.
    Discomfort about being in a leadership role what if im not as good as they thought
  • B.
    Guilt about having more than others
  • C.
    Anxiety about maintaining it
  • D.
    Doubt about whether I deserve it
  • E.
    Pressure to keep working harder for it to continue to last
  • F.
    Confusion about what to do next
  • G.
    Fear of more people watching me or judging me
• 6.
  What makes you most frustrated about your business growth?

  • A.
    Thinking I need more skills before I can succeed
  • B.
    Feeling uneasy about receiving more than I give
  • C.
    Feeling like I have to constantly prove my worth
  • D.
    Fear that success might lead to instability
  • E.
    Hesitating to take charge and lead boldly
  • F.
    Not trusting my own decisions and instincts
  • G.
    Worrying about being judged when I put myself out there

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  The Proving Wound

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  Your core belief“I must work hard to deserve money.”Why this pattern existsAt some point in your life, your nervous system likely learned that achievement, productivity, or being capable earned love, approval, or safety.Maybe you were praised for being the responsible one. Maybe success was expected of you. Maybe you felt valued when you performed well.Over time, your brain linked effort with worth.So now in business, working hard doesn’t just feel productive — it feels necessary for belonging and validation.How it shows up in business• Overdelivering to clients • Charging less than the value you provide • Feeling uncomfortable resting • Burnout cycles • Difficulty receiving money with easeYour money patternIncome comes primarily through effort rather than energetic alignment or leadership.Nervous system patternYour nervous system may interpret rest, ease, or spaciousness as unsafe.Your next shiftLearning that money can flow through just being "enough" practice resting for little amounts each day and hand on womb - "I am enough as me. it is safe to rest" "I recieve while resting" "I receive simply by being me"This is often linked to the approval wound linked to the father. Youre seeking love & attention. So money feels like you have to do something in order to receive it And if you have the belief "im lazy" and projections around not wanting to burn out, or be busy in business or business is "hard" then you will continue to procrastinate or sabotage.
• 2.
  The Visibility Wound

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  The Visibility WoundYour core belief“If I’m fully seen, I’ll be judged or rejected.”Why this pattern existsAt some point, being visible likely led to criticism, embarrassment, rejection, or shame.Maybe you were told you were “too much.” Maybe you were judged for speaking up. Maybe you experienced bullying or harsh feedback.Your nervous system then learned that being fully seen could lead to emotional threat.This is usually linked to the mother wound and a sense of belonging and acceptance.So even when you consciously want to grow your business, another part of you tries to protect you by staying small or invisible in order to belong or be loved. How it shows up in business• Avoiding consistent posting • Diluting your message • Overthinking what people will think • Hesitating to show your personality or opinions • Not speaking your truth or comparing consistently Your money patternYour work may be powerful - but not enough people see it. You'll also sabotage money in fear of being seen having it or out shining Nervous system patternVisibility can trigger subtle fight, flight, or freeze responses.Your next shiftExpanding your nervous system capacity to be seen without feeling threatened. Feel the sensations in your body of what it would look like it you were visible or seen - stay with the sensations, observe and breathe into it for 90 seconds
• 3.
  The Worthiness Wound

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  The Worthiness WoundYour core belief“I’m not enough yet.” "I dont deserve good things"Why this pattern existsThis pattern often develops in environments where approval felt conditional.Love, praise, or recognition may have come when you performed well, achieved something, or met expectations.You may also have grown up in a culture of comparison or perfectionism.Your mind learned that being worthy meant constantly improving before you could fully claim your place.So even when you’re capable, part of you feels like you still need to learn more, prepare more, or perfect things first.How it shows up in business• Imposter syndrome • Over-learning instead of implementing • Waiting until everything is perfect • Discounting prices or downplaying expertiseYour money patternYou spend a lot of time preparing instead of receiving. You may get rid of money as soon as it arrives Nervous system patternPersistent self-doubt. Unsafety when things arriveYour next shiftAllowing yourself to lead and receive now, rather than someday in the future. Practice taking small amount of action and stopping to acknowledge and be proud
• 4.
  The Safety Wound

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  The Safety WoundYour core belief“Success could take something from me.”Why this pattern existsYour nervous system may have witnessed or experienced situations where growth, success, or visibility led to loss, stress, or conflict.For example:• Financial instability in your family • Seeing successful people experience pressure or burnout • Jealousy or tension when someone did well • Feeling abandoned when life circumstances changedYour brain may have quietly learned that expansion could lead to instability or disconnection.So when business starts growing, another part of you tries to restore safety by slowing things down or pulling back.This is also linked to the abandonment wound. So your body would rather sabotage than feel the pain of abandonment againHow it shows up in business• Self-sabotage • Losing momentum after growth • Inconsistent income patterns • Pulling back when opportunities appearYour money patternGrowth → collapse cycles.Nervous system patternExpansion triggers a subconscious threat response. Looking for the other shoe to dropYour next shiftTeaching your nervous system that success can be safe, stable, and sustainable. Practice holding money or holding something that feels good. This is womb work
• 5.
  The Power Wound

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  The Power WoundYour core belief“It’s not safe for me to be powerful.” "it's not safe to shine my light" Why this pattern existsMany women were conditioned - subtly or directly - to be agreeable, accommodating, or quiet.You may have seen people criticized for being too confident, too ambitious, or too outspoken.Perhaps leadership was associated with conflict, criticism, or rejection.Your nervous system may have learned that being powerful could lead to social disconnection, being an outcast or backlash.So even when you have strong ideas and natural leadership, another part of you may hold back.How it shows up in business• Difficulty selling confidently • Playing smaller than your capacity • Hesitating to fully claim expertise • Avoiding bold leadership decisions • Avoiding more people into spaces (even though you may want more - your body says its not safe)Your money patternYou unconsciously cap your impact and income. Money unconsciously may feel scary, intimidating or "power" or greedy Nervous system patternPower and influence trigger discomfort or guilt. Unsafe being seen. Avoiding speaking up Your next shiftReclaiming leadership in a way that feels aligned and grounded rather than overwhelming. Practice in your body what it feels like to be powerful
• 6.
  The Trust Wound

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  The Trust WoundYour core belief“I don’t trust myself.”Why this pattern existsThis wound often forms when intuition, choices, or opinions were dismissed or overridden earlier in life.Maybe authority figures frequently told you that you were wrong. Maybe decisions were made for you. Maybe you were taught to rely on external validation.Over time, your brain learned that other people probably know better than you do.So in business, it can feel safer to follow strategies, mentors, or trends rather than your own inner knowing.How it shows up in business• Jumping between strategies • Over-consuming information • Difficulty committing to decisions • Feeling overwhelmed by conflicting adviceYour money patternInconsistent momentum. Not trusting money to stay or trusting yourself with it so constantly spending more than what you have Nervous system patternChronic uncertainty. Freeze. Your next shiftRebuilding self-trust and intuitive leadership.
• 7.
  The Receiving Wound

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  The Receiving WoundYour core belief“Receiving feels uncomfortable or selfish.”Why this pattern existsThis pattern often forms in environments where you learned that love meant giving, helping, or taking care of others.You may have been the responsible one. The emotional support for others. The one who held everything together.In those roles, giving felt safe and familiar.Receiving - whether it’s support, money, or recognition - may feel unfamiliar or even uncomfortable.How it shows up in business• Difficulty charging premium prices • Feeling guilty about making money • Overgiving to clients • Struggling to prioritise financial growthYour money patternMoney tends to flow outward more easily than inward. As soon as money comes in, it leaves. Perhaps an unexpected bill comes along, or perhaps you spend it on someone to get rid of the money. guilt for wanting more so blocking the thing you say you want Nervous system patternReceiving can trigger extreme guilt or discomfort.Your next shiftExpanding your capacity to receive money, support, and success without guilt.