Which Hidden Dating Pattern Is Holding You Back?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  When you like someone, you tend to…

  • A.
    Show up fully and give a lot early
  • B.
    Focus on what it could become
  • C.
    Analyse everything he says and does
  • D.
    Adjust yourself to keep things flowing
• 2.
  When he pulls back slightly, you…

  • A.
    Try harder to reconnect, even though it feels wrong
  • B.
    Ignore it. He probably just needs time
  • C.
    Stay quiet but feel anxious inside
  • D.
    Obsess and replay everything to figure out why (AKA send 20 screenshots to your girl gang to decode him)
• 3.
  Your biggest fear in dating is…

  • A.
    Not being enough
  • B.
    Missing out on "the one"
  • C.
    Misreading the situation
  • D.
    Being abandoned
• 4.
  When things feel unclear, you usually…

  • A.
    Initiate more to stabilise it (messages, organising catch-ups, etc.)
  • B.
    Focus on the good parts from the beginning
  • C.
    Try to decode what’s going on and stress yourself out in the process
  • D.
    Ignore your feelings and stay
• 5.
  How quickly do you get emotionally invested?

  • A.
    Fast (even though I don't want to admit it)
  • B.
    Fast if there’s potential
  • C.
    At the same pace as him
  • D.
    Fast, but I wouldn’t let him know unless I was sure he liked me too
• 6.
  When he gives you mixed signals, you …

  • A.
    Feel like you need to show him you're worth it
  • B.
    Hope and fantasise that he will come around
  • C.
    Wonder what it means and think about it a lot
  • D.
    Feel like you're expecting too much
• 7.
  Your dating pattern tends to be…

  • A.
    You give more than you receive
  • B.
    You see potential others don’t
  • C.
    You feel confused a lot
  • D.
    You stay longer than you should
• 8.
  When you feel anxious, you…

  • A.
    Reach out
  • B.
    Reassure yourself with future thinking
  • C.
    Overthink and ruminate
  • D.
    Suppress it and distract yourself
• 9.
  What keeps you in situationships?

  • A.
    Remembering the good things he’s done
  • B.
    Believing it will change
  • C.
    Trying to understand him and changing yourself to love him better
  • D.
    Not wanting to lose him
• 10.
  Deep down, you know you…

  • A.
    Give a lot and want the same in return, even though you never seem to get it
  • B.
    Ignore red flags and always realise where you overrode your intuition when you’re in too deep
  • C.
    Overanalyse and find it difficult to relax into vulnerability and intimacy
  • D.
    Put yourself last in relationships constantly putting others needs before your own

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Your Pattern is The Over-Giver

  Your full pattern breakdown has been sent to your email.(check your promotions/spam folder just in case)But here’s the part most women miss…Awareness doesn’t break the pattern.It just shows you where you’re stuck.If you don’t shift what’s happening in your nervous system, you’ll keeprepeating the same dynamic just with a different person.If you’re ready to actually change this…Not overthink it. Not analyse it. But shift it at the root.The Chosen Reset is where that happens.This is a 21-day process designed to help you recalibrate your nervous system, so you stop chasing emotionally unavailable men and start choosing differently without forcing it.
• 2.
  Your Pattern is The Potential Chaser

  Your full pattern breakdown has been sent to your email.(check your promotions/spam folder just in case)But here’s the part most women miss…Awareness doesn’t break the pattern.It just shows you where you’re stuck.If you don’t shift what’s happening in your nervous system, you’ll keeprepeating the same dynamic just with a different person.If you’re ready to actually change this…Not overthink it. Not analyse it. But shift it at the root.The Chosen Reset is where that happens.This is a 21-day process designed to help you recalibrate your nervous system, so you stop chasing emotionally unavailable men and start choosing differently without forcing it.
• 3.
  Your Pattern is The Emotional Interpreter

  Your full pattern breakdown has been sent to your email.(check your promotions/spam folder just in case)But here’s the part most women miss…Awareness doesn’t break the pattern.It just shows you where you’re stuck.If you don’t shift what’s happening in your nervous system, you’ll keeprepeating the same dynamic just with a different person.If you’re ready to actually change this…Not overthink it. Not analyse it. But shift it at the root.The Chosen Reset is where that happens.This is a 21-day process designed to help you recalibrate your nervous system, so you stop chasing emotionally unavailable men and start choosing differently without forcing it.
• 4.
  Your Pattern is The Self-Abandoner

  Your full pattern breakdown has been sent to your email.(check your promotions/spam folder just in case)But here’s the part most women miss…Awareness doesn’t break the pattern.It just shows you where you’re stuck.If you don’t shift what’s happening in your nervous system, you’ll keeprepeating the same dynamic just with a different person.If you’re ready to actually change this…Not overthink it. Not analyse it. But shift it at the root.The Chosen Reset is where that happens.This is a 21-day process designed to help you recalibrate your nervous system, so you stop chasing emotionally unavailable men and start choosing differently without forcing it.