Are You in a Situationship?

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Quiz Questions

1.
How does he introduce you to other people?
- A.
  As a friend or just by name.
- B.
  As his girlfriend or partner.
- C.
  It depends on who's around.
- D.
  He avoids introducing me altogether.
2.
When you ask about the status of your relationship, he:
- A.
  Gives you hope but never commits.
- B.
  Gets uncomfortable and changes the subject.
- C.
  Says things like 'why put a label on it?'.
- D.
  Has a clear, confident answer.
3.
How often does he initiate plans with you?
- A.
  Mostly when it's convenient for him.
- B.
  Mainly late nights or last-minute.
- C.
  Regularly — he makes consistent effort.
- D.
  I'm usually the one reaching out.
4.
Does he know and engage with important parts of your life — family, goals, struggles?
- A.
  Somewhat, but only surface level.
- B.
  Only when I bring it up first.
- C.
  Yes, deeply and consistently.
- D.
  Somewhat, but only surface level.
5.
How does he respond when you express your feelings or needs?
- A.
  He listens but nothing changes.
- B.
  He listens and takes action.
- C.
  He dismisses them or avoids the topic.
- D.
  He gets defensive or distant.
6.
Are you consistently a priority in his life, or are you often an afterthought?
- A.
  I feel like an option, not a choice.
- B.
  I'm clearly a priority.
- C.
  I honestly can't tell.
- D.
  I'm a priority sometimes.
7.
Do you two have conversations about a shared future together?
- A.
  He keeps it open-ended on purpose.
- B.
  Occasionally, but vaguely.
- C.
  Yes — we talk about it and plan for it.
- D.
  No — the future is off-limits.
8.
How would you describe the emotional intimacy between you two?
- A.
  Deep and mutual — we're both invested.
- B.
  One-sided — I give more than I get.
- C.
  Surface-level — it's mostly physical.
- D.
  It fluctuates and keeps me guessing.
9.
When he pulls away or goes distant, how does he explain it?
- A.
  He barely explains and just returns.
- B.
  He communicates openly and comes back.
- C.
  He blames me or my 'neediness.
- D.
  There's no explanation — just silence.
10.
How do you feel most of the time in this connection?
- A.
  Hopeful but often confused.
- B.
  Like I'm auditioning for a role I already earned.
- C.
  Secure, loved, and at peace.
- D.
  Anxious, unsettled, always waiting.
11.
How does he handle you on social media?
- A.
  Posts us / tags me openly, no hesitation.
- B.
  Likes my posts but keeps it low-key.
- C.
  Never engages with my page publicly.
- D.
  He's inconsistent — sometimes visible, sometimes not.
12.
How would you describe the pace of physical intimacy compared to emotional intimacy?
- A.
  Physical moved faster than emotional connection.
- B.
  They've grown together, at a healthy pace.
- C.
  It fluctuates depending on his mood, not ours.
- D.
  It's mostly physical — emotional depth never came.
13.
When you two disagree or have a conflict, what usually happens?
- A.
  He shuts down or disappears for a while.
- B.
  I usually back down to keep the peace.
- C.
  We talk it through and resolve it together.
- D.
  It turns into a cycle of fighting, then silence, then false peace.
14.
Have you met his close friends or family, or has he met yours?
- A.
  He's met mine, but I haven't met his (or vice versa).
- B.
  I've met a few people, but it feels incomplete.
- C.
  No — he keeps that part of his life separate.
- D.
  Yes, we're fully integrated into each other's circles.
15.
Over the past few months, has this relationship grown more secure or stayed the same/gotten worse?
- A.
  It's stayed about the same the whole time.
- B.
  It's grown more secure and defined over time.
- C.
  It's inconsistent — better some weeks, worse others.
- D.
  It's actually gotten more distant or confusing.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
The Situationship Veteran
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You are deep in it, sis. The connection feels real, but the commitment never comes. You've been giving your best to someone who keeps you close enough to stay but never close enough to claim. It's exhausting — and you deserve so much better than an almost. It's time to get clear, get brave, and get out or get defined.You've been waiting long enough for clarity that was never coming. The Situationship Clarity Call was created for exactly where you are right now. Let's work through this together... live, every single day.
2.
The Comfortable Compromiser
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You see the signs and you're smart enough to know something isn't adding up. The relationship has real moments, but the inconsistency is starting to wear on you. Don't talk yourself out of what you're feeling. Your instincts are right. It's time to get some clarity before this goes any further.You already see the pattern. Now let's get you the language and the confidence to do something about it. Schedule your Situationship Clarity Call and walk away knowing exactly where you stand.
3.
The Boundary Builder
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You're closer to secure love than you realize, and that is worth celebrating! Your relationship shows real signs of self-awareness. You notice the red flags, you know your worth, and you're not confused about what you deserve. Keep trusting what you see, keep holding your standards, and keep giving yourself credit for how far you've already come.Self-awareness like yours deserves to be sharpened and supported. Join the Commitment Collective community for connection with women who share your values, and the tools to turn "almost there" into secure, covenant love... for good.
4.
The Standard-Setter
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Things are mostly good and that's exactly why this is hard to name. But good isn't the ceiling, sis. There are a few places where your needs could be spoken more clearly and honored more consistently. You don't need to blow anything up. You just need to stop settling for almost secure.Secure love deserves to be protected and celebrated. Join the Commitment Collective community for community and connection with women who share your values, and the tools to keep choosing well every single day.