What’s Your Pleasure Score?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  1. How well do you know what genuinely brings you pleasure

  • A.
    I'm not really sure.
  • B.
    I know a few things, but I haven't thought about it much.
  • C.
    I have some idea, but I'm still figuring it out.
  • D.
    I know many things that nourish and delight me.
  • E.
    I have a strong sense of what helps me feel alive, nourished, and like myself.
• 2.
  2. When you want to do something simply because it would feel good, what usually happens?

  • A.
    I usually talk myself out of it because there are more important things to do.
  • B.
    I may want to do it, but I feel guilty if I haven't been productive enough.
  • C.
    It depends on what else I have going on.
  • D.
    I can usually let myself enjoy it without needing to justify it.
  • E.
    I trust that pleasure can be valuable even when it isn't productive.
• 3.
  3. When something sparks your curiosity, what are you most likely to do?

  • A.
    Ignore it and stick with what I already know.
  • B.
    Think about it, but rarely do anything with the curiosity.
  • C.
    Explore it if the opportunity happens naturally.
  • D.
    Look for a way to learn more or try it.
  • E.
    Follow the breadcrumb and see where it leads.
• 4.
  4. How often do you intentionally make time for things that bring you joy?

  • A.
    Almost never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
  • E.
    Regularly
• 5.
  5. How connected do you currently feel to your body and its signals?

  • A.
    Very disconnected
  • B.
    Somewhat disconnected
  • C.
    It depends on the day
  • D.
    Mostly connected
  • E.
    Deeply connected and attentive
• 6.
  6. How true does this feel for you? "I allow myself to rest without guilt."

  • A.
    Not true at all
  • B.
    Slightly true
  • C.
    Sometimes true
  • D.
    Mostly true
  • E.
    Completely true
• 7.
  7. How do you respond when you realize something you used to enjoy doesn't feel the same anymore?

  • A.
    I usually keep doing it because it's what I've always liked.
  • B.
    I find the change frustrating or confusing.
  • C.
    I need time before I can accept that my preferences may have changed.
  • D.
    I'm usually open to adjusting.
  • E.
    I see changing preferences as an invitation to get curious about what fits me now.
• 8.
  8. When your schedule gets busy, what usually happens to the things that nourish you?

  • A.
    They're usually the first things to disappear.
  • B.
    I tell myself I'll come back to them later.
  • C.
    I try to keep some of them, but it depends on the week.
  • D.
    I intentionally protect time for at least a few of them.
  • E.
    I build my life with the understanding that nourishment needs space too.
• 9.
  9. At the end of a typical day, how often can you tell what filled your cup and what drained your energy?

  • A.
    I rarely stop to think about it.
  • B.
    Sometimes I notice when I'm completely exhausted.
  • C.
    I notice occasionally, but not consistently.
  • D.
    I usually recognize what nourished or depleted me.
  • E.
    Paying attention to these patterns is already part of how I move through life.
• 10.
  10. Which statement best reflects your current relationship with pleasure?

  • A.
    Pleasure feels like a reward I get after I've done enough.
  • B.
    Pleasure is something I enjoy when I have earned or justified it.
  • C.
    I'm beginning to question the idea that pleasure has to be earned.
  • D.
    I genuinely see pleasure as something that can sustain and recharge me.
  • E.
    Pleasure feels like a resource that helps me live more fully.
• 11.
  11. How often do you intentionally try something because you wonder, "What would this feel like for me?"?

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
  • E.
    Very often
• 12.
  12. Which statement sounds most like your life right now?

  • A.
    I know what I value, but my life doesn't really reflect it.
  • B.
    I make time for what I'm obligated to do and hope there is time left afterward.
  • C.
    I'm starting to notice what I want to make more room for.
  • D.
    My choices are becoming aligned with what matters to me.
  • E.
    If someone observed my life, I think they would see evidence of what I genuinely value.
• 13.
  13. How often do you notice moments of pleasure that are simple, ordinary, or easy to overlook?

  • A.
    Rarely
  • B.
    Occasionally
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
  • E.
    Very often
• 14.
  14. When you think about prioritizing your own pleasure or enjoyment, which statement feels closest to you?

  • A.
    Other people's needs come first.
  • B.
    I tend to prioritize myself only after everything else is handled.
  • C.
    I know my needs matter, but I don't always act like it.
  • D.
    I usually make space for my needs alongside other responsibilities.
  • E.
    I believe tending to myself helps me show up more fully in my life.
• 15.
  15. If you trusted yourself 10% more, how likely are you to follow something you've been curious about?

  • A.
    Very unlikely
  • B.
    Unlikely
  • C.
    Maybe
  • D.
    Likely
  • E.
    Very likely
• 16.
  16. How consistently do your daily choices make room for what genuinely nourishes you?

  • A.
    Rarely. Most of my energy goes toward getting through my responsibilities.
  • B.
    Occasionally, when I have extra time or energy.
  • C.
    Sometimes, but I would like to be more intentional.
  • D.
    Often. I regularly make choices that support what nourishes me.
  • E.
    Consistently. Making room for what nourishes me is an important part of how I live.

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  The Starting Point

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  You're at the beginning of your exploration.Your results suggest that pleasure may not currently receive much attention or space in your life. You may be accustomed to prioritizing productivity, responsibilities, or the needs of others before your own enjoyment.You might not yet have a clear sense of what genuinely nourishes you—or perhaps you know, but haven't given yourself permission to prioritize it.You don't have to know everything before you begin. Awareness can begin with simply noticing.Your next breadcrumb:NOTICEStart paying attention to small moments throughout your day.Ask yourself:What feels good right now? What is filling my cup? What is draining me?You don't need to change anything yet. Just notice.Immediate action:Before the day ends, write down three moments when you felt even a small amount of comfort, delight, satisfaction, connection, or aliveness.Your first step isn't to create more pleasure.It's to begin recognizing where it already exists.
• 2.
  The Awakening

  You're beginning to notice the landscape.You may already be questioning old ideas about pleasure and becoming more aware of what feels nourishing to you. There are likely moments when you recognize what you want, what you enjoy, or what you need—but consistently trusting and acting on that awareness may still be a work in progress.You don't need a complete map yet.You're gathering information.Your preferences are allowed to evolve. Your relationship with pleasure can change as you do.Your next breadcrumb:PERMISSIONConsider where you may still be waiting to feel like you've "earned" pleasure.Ask yourself:What would I allow myself to enjoy if I didn't have to justify it first?Immediate action:Choose one small thing you genuinely want to do this week and allow yourself to do it without making productivity the condition.No earning it first.No finishing everything first.Just permission.
• 3.
  The Exploration

  You have a map. Now you're learning where it can lead.Your results suggest that you already have a growing awareness of what nourishes you and may be actively making some room for pleasure in your life. You understand that pleasure can take different forms and you're likely becoming more intentional about your relationship with it.Your next opportunity may be to keep following your curiosity.You don't have to stay attached to what you've always enjoyed.You are allowed to discover something new.You are allowed to change your mind.Your next breadcrumb:EXPLORENotice what keeps catching your attention.What have you been curious about?What have you wanted to try, learn, taste, create, experience, or feel?Immediate action:Choose one breadcrumb you've been curious about and take one small step toward following it this week.You don't have to know where it leads.That's part of the exploration.
• 4.
  The Practice

  Pleasure is becoming a practice.Your results suggest that you have developed a strong relationship with noticing what nourishes you, giving yourself permission to receive, following your curiosity, and making room for what helps you feel more alive.That doesn't mean you've "arrived."Pleasure isn't a destination.It's an ongoing relationship with yourself.And relationships change.Your next opportunity isn't necessarily to do more. It may be to stay present with what is evolving.What once brought you pleasure may change.New desires may emerge.Different seasons of life may call for different forms of nourishment.Your next breadcrumb:DEEPENContinue asking:What is true for me now? What am I noticing? What wants more of my attention?Immediate action:Revisit one thing you already know brings you pleasure—but experience it with fresh attention.Slow down.Notice what feels different.Notice what remains.Let yourself be surprised.