"What do I actually want?"

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  When you imagine your ideal day — not a holiday, just a regular Tuesday — what's missing from it right now?

  • A.
    A real sense of rest and time for myself
  • B.
    Something that genuinely excites or fulfils me
  • C.
    Progress toward something I've always wanted to do
  • D.
    A feeling that what I'm doing actually matters
• 2.
  When did you last do something purely because it brought YOU joy?

  • A.
    — I honestly can't remember — I'm usually doing things for everyone else
  • B.
    I have little moments but not nearly enough
  • C.
    I know what lights me up but I keep putting it off
  • D.
    I make time for the things I enjoy but something still feels missing
• 3.
  If a trusted friend looked at your life honestly right now, what would she say you need most?

  • A.
    To stop, breathe, and actually take care of yourself
  • B.
    To find what lights you up again and pursue it without guilt
  • C.
    To finally make space for that thing you keep saying you want to do
  • D.
    To get clear on what really matters to you and start living more of it
• 4.
  Which of these best describes your relationship with your own needs right now?

  • A.
    I'm so used to looking after everyone else, there isn't much left for me
  • B.
    I take care of the every day stuff but I'm craving something more
  • C.
    I have a sense of what I need, I just don't always make space for it
  • D.
    I'm not completely sure what I need right now and I'd like to find out
• 5.
  When you imagine coming back to yourself fully — what does that actually look like?

  • A.
    Feeling rested, nourished, and present in my own life again
  • B.
    Feeling genuinely excited and fulfilled by my everyday life
  • C.
    Making space for the things I've been wanting to do
  • D.
    Feeling like the way I spend my time actually matters to me

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Your Result: The Self-Care Seeker

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  First, can I just say — the fact that you're here, taking this quiz and asking yourself this question, matters.Because when you're used to being the one who shows up for everyone else, stopping to think about what you want doesn't always come naturally.You are someone people can rely on. You care deeply. You notice what needs doing and, more often than not, you just get on with it.But somewhere amongst all that doing, there may not have been quite enough room left for you.And perhaps you're starting to feel that.Not necessarily in some huge, dramatic way. Maybe it's simply a sense that you're tired of always being the capable one. Or that life is full, but something still feels a little flat.Maybe you've even caught yourself thinking:When do I get to think about what I want?If so, there's nothing wrong with you.It may simply be time to make a little more room for yourself.What's Really Going OnWhen you've spent a long time looking after other people, it's very easy to become disconnected from your own needs without even realising it's happening.You get used to carrying on.You override the tiredness. You put something off because somebody else needs you. You tell yourself you'll make time for yourself when things calm down.And somehow, they never quite do.This isn't about blaming yourself for putting other people first. Caring for people you love is part of who you are.But you are allowed to be part of the equation too.You don't have to wait until you're exhausted, resentful or completely fed up before your needs are important.What You Might NeedProbably not another morning routine.Or another list of things you should be doing to look after yourself.What you may need is something much gentler:Space to hear yourself again.That can start in the body.A breath you actually notice.A moment of stillness.Recognising when something feels like too much.Noticing what feels good.Asking yourself what you need — and allowing the answer to matter.These things can sound small, but when you've spent years automatically putting everyone else first, they're anything but.They're a way back to yourself.What Your Next Chapter Could Look LikeImagine having space in your life that belongs to you too.Imagine being able to say “I need…” without immediately feeling guilty.Imagine making decisions based not only on what everyone else needs, but on what feels right for you as well.Imagine feeling more present in your own life — not because you've changed everything, but because you've started including yourself in it again.You don't need to have all the answers today.You don't need to know exactly what you want next.You only need to start listening.And by taking this quiz today, perhaps you already have.You've already begun.Check your inbox — there's something there for you. 🤍With love, Sarah x
• 2.
  Your Result: The Fulfillment Chaser

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  Can I tell you something that might feel familiar?Your life may actually be pretty good.You've built something real. Relationships, responsibilities, perhaps a career, a business, a family or a home you're proud of.There may be lots in your life that you're genuinely grateful for.And yet, every now and then, a little question appears:Is there something more for me?Not because you're unhappy.Not because you want to throw everything away and start again.Just because the life you've built might not feel quite as fulfilling as you thought it would.And you're beginning to wonder what you want from this next part of your life.What's Really Going OnThere can be a strange moment in life when you realise you've spent years working towards the next thing.Building. Achieving. Caring. Doing what needed to be done.And then one day you look around and think:Okay… what now?That doesn't make you ungrateful.And it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with the life you already have.It may simply mean that you're changing.What mattered to you ten or twenty years ago might not be exactly what matters to you now.Perhaps you're craving more meaning. More freedom. More creativity. More connection. More adventure.Or maybe you can't name it at all yet.That's okay too.Because you don't need to have the answer.You just need to become curious about the question:What do I actually want now?Not what you should want.Not what's sensible or expected.Not what everyone around you might choose.What feels right for you?What You Might NeedYou don't need to blow up your life.You don't need to quit your job, move to Bali or suddenly discover your life's purpose. 😉You might simply need some space to hear yourself again.To notice what gives you energy.What you're drawn towards.What you'd like more of.What you've quietly outgrown.And what you might choose if you gave yourself permission to explore without needing to know where it will lead.You don't have to make huge changes.Sometimes the next chapter begins with one very small decision that feels more like you.What Your Next Chapter Could Look LikeImagine feeling genuinely curious about what's ahead.Having things in your life that are there simply because you love them.Making choices because they feel right for the woman you are now — rather than automatically doing what you've always done.And perhaps feeling a little spark again.Not constant excitement. Not a completely different life.Just that lovely sense of:Yes. This feels like me.Your fulfilment hasn't disappeared.Perhaps it's simply asking you to pay attention to it again.And by taking this quiz today, you've already started.You've already begun.Check your inbox — there's something there for you. 🤍With love, Sarah x
• 3.
  Your Result: The Dream Holder

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  You might already know what you want.And that makes your result a little different.Perhaps there’s something you’ve been carrying for a while.A dream. An idea. A change you’d love to make. A version of your life that you find yourself imagining every now and then.Maybe it’s a business you’d love to start. A place you’d love to visit or live. Something creative you want to explore. A change in the way you work. Or simply a different way you want your life to feel.Whatever it is, there's a good chance you already have an inkling.And perhaps the question isn't “What do I want?”It's:“How do I actually begin?”What's Really Going OnKnowing what you want and feeling ready to do something about it are two very different things.Real life gets involved.There are responsibilities. Money. Family. Work. Other people to consider.And sometimes there's that little voice that asks:Is this sensible? Can I really do this? What if it doesn't work? Have I left it too late?None of that means you're not brave enough or that you don't want it badly enough.It means you're human.And when something matters to us, taking the first step can feel much bigger than dreaming about it.But here's the lovely thing:You don't have to know exactly how you're going to get there before you begin.What You Might NeedYou probably don't need a huge plan.And you definitely don't need to turn your whole life upside down tomorrow.You might just need to take your dream seriously enough to give it some space.To get curious about what could be possible.To look at what's genuinely standing in your way — and what's simply uncertainty about doing something new.And then to ask:What's one small step I could take?One conversation.One email.One hour put aside.One bit of research.One decision that moves this from “one day” to “I've started.”Because small steps count.In fact, they're often how the biggest changes begin.What Your Next Chapter Could Look LikeImagine looking back twelve months from now and seeing that something has shifted.Maybe you haven't reached the final destination.Maybe the dream itself has even changed along the way.But you've moved.You've tried things.You've learned something about yourself.You've stopped keeping this part of you tucked away for someday and started giving it a place in your actual life.Imagine being able to say:“I'm doing it.”Not perfectly.Not fearlessly.Just one step at a time.You don't need permission to want something different.And you don't need to have the whole journey mapped out.You just need somewhere to begin.And perhaps taking this quiz was your first little step.You've already begun.Check your inbox — there's something there for you. 🤍With love, Sarah x
• 4.
  Your Result: The Purpose Seeker

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  You know you're looking for something — you're just not entirely sure what it is yet.And that's okay.You might not have a particular dream you've been carrying for years or a perfectly clear picture of what you want next.It's more of a feeling.A sense that there might be something more for you.More meaning. More purpose. Something that feels interesting or important. Something that feels like you.You've built a life that makes sense, and there may be plenty about it that you genuinely love.But perhaps there's a little question that's started appearing more often:What do I want from this next part of my life?You don't need to know the answer yet.The fact that you're asking the question is enough.What's Really Going OnThere are times in life when the things that used to give us direction don't quite fit in the same way anymore.Priorities change.We change.The woman you are today isn't exactly the same woman you were ten or twenty years ago — so it makes sense that what you want might have changed too.That doesn't mean you need to make a dramatic change.It doesn't mean anything is wrong.And it certainly doesn't mean you're lost.Maybe you're simply ready to explore.To find out what matters to you now.What gives you energy.What you're curious about.What you'd like more of.And perhaps what you'd like a little less of.You don't have to turn any of those answers into a five-year plan.For now, noticing them is enough.What You Might NeedYou might think you need to figure out your purpose.That's a pretty big question to put on yourself.Instead, what if you started smaller?Rather than asking:“What am I here to do?”Try asking:“What am I curious about?”Or:“What would I like to explore?”Maybe there's something you've always wanted to learn.Somewhere you'd love to go.Something you'd like to create.A part of yourself you'd like to rediscover.Or perhaps you simply want more space to work out what you enjoy when you're not busy meeting everybody else's needs.You don't have to force clarity.Sometimes it arrives when we give ourselves enough space to notice what's already there.What Your Next Chapter Could Look LikeImagine feeling curious about what's ahead rather than feeling as though you should already have it figured out.Imagine trying things simply because they interest you.Following little nudges.Changing your mind.Discovering things about yourself that surprise you.And slowly beginning to recognise what feels right for the woman you are now.Your next chapter doesn't need to arrive as one big revelation.It can unfold gradually.One conversation. One experience. One idea. One small “I'd quite like to try that.”And then another.You don't need the whole map.You just need somewhere to begin.And perhaps taking this quiz was part of that.You've already begun.Check your inbox — there's something there for you. 🤍With love, Sarah x