Is Your Family Drifting?

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Quiz Questions

1.
Our week is so full that faith conversations mostly happen when someone's in trouble or hurting.
- A.
  Rarely/Not us = 0
- B.
  Sometimes = 1
- C.
  Honestly, most weeks = 2
2.
I can't remember the last time we sat together as a family with no screens and nowhere to be.
- A.
  Rarely/Not us = 0
- B.
  Sometimes = 1
- C.
  Honestly, most weeks = 2
3.
Church is the one spiritual thing on our calendar; the rest of the week runs on its own.
- A.
  Rarely/Not us = 0
- B.
  Sometimes = 1
- C.
  Honestly, most weeks = 2
4.
When I picture "family time," I picture logistics—rides, practices, homework—more than connection.
- A.
  Rarely/Not us = 0
- B.
  Sometimes = 1
- C.
  Honestly, most weeks = 2
5.
My kids hear more about what's true from YouTube, school, and friends than they hear from me.
- A.
  Rarely/Not us = 0
- B.
  Sometimes = 1
- C.
  Honestly, most weeks = 2
6.
When a show, song, or influencer says something that doesn't line up with what we believe, we usually just let it go.
- A.
  Rarely/Not us = 0
- B.
  Sometimes = 1
- C.
  Honestly, most weeks = 2
7.
If my child asked me "why" we believe what we believe, I'm not sure how I'd answer.
- A.
  Rarely/Not us = 0
- B.
  Sometimes = 1
- C.
  Honestly, most weeks = 2
8.
I assume my kids are "getting it" because they go to church and youth group.
- A.
  Rarely/Not us = 0
- B.
  Sometimes = 1
- C.
  Honestly, most weeks = 2
9.
My child's mood rises and falls with what's happening on their phone or tablet.
- A.
  Rarely/Not us = 0
- B.
  Sometimes = 1
- C.
  Honestly, most weeks = 2
10.
My kids seem more concerned with how they look to friends online than with who God says they are.
- A.
  Rarely/Not us = 0
- B.
  Sometimes = 1
- C.
  Honestly, most weeks = 2
11.
We don't really have a plan for phones and screens; we mostly react when something goes wrong.
- A.
  Rarely/Not us = 0
- B.
  Sometimes = 1
- C.
  Honestly, most weeks = 2
12.
I've watched my child adopt a trend, phrase, or attitude straight from the internet without questioning it.
- A.
  Rarely/Not us = 0
- B.
  Sometimes = 1
- C.
  Honestly, most weeks = 2
13.
Prayer at our house is mostly meals and bedtime, if that.
- A.
  Rarely/Not us = 0
- B.
  Sometimes = 1
- C.
  Honestly, most weeks = 2
14.
My kids have never seen me open my Bible outside of church.
- A.
  Rarely/Not us = 0
- B.
  Sometimes = 1
- C.
  Honestly, most weeks = 2
15.
Faith at our house feels like something we "do", not someone we "know".
- A.
  Rarely/Not us = 0
- B.
  Sometimes = 1
- C.
  Honestly, most weeks = 2
16.
If a coach or teacher scheduled something over church, we'd probably go to the event.
- A.
  Rarely/Not us = 0
- B.
  Sometimes = 1
- C.
  Honestly, most weeks = 2

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Anchored (0-8)
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YOU'RE ANCHOREDSomething real is happening in your home. Your kids are seeing faith lived out—not just talked about on Sundays—and that's rarer than you think.Here's what I'd gently say: anchored isn't finished. The families I've watched drift weren't careless. They were anchored once, and life got louder. New season, new sport, new phone, and the rhythms that held everything together slowly slipped without anyone deciding to let them go.So the question for you isn't "how do I fix this?" It's "how do I protect it?"The Hidden Deception was written for exactly this—naming the subtle ways good families drift so you can see it coming and lead them back on purpose. Pre-order today and you'll also get the Family Rhythm Template, which is built to keep what's working, working.
2.
Drifting (9-18)
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You're Drifting—And You're Not AloneIf you're here, take a breath. This is where most of the moms I talk to land, and it's exactly where I was when I started asking harder questions about my own home.Nothing is broken. That's actually the tricky part. Your kids go to church. You pray at dinner. You're doing "all the right things." But somewhere in the busyness, faith has started sliding from the center of your home toward the edges, and you can feel it even if you can't name it yet.That feeling isn't guilt. It's calling.The Hidden Deception is the wake-up call and the roadmap—how to spot the drift in your own family and, with intention, lead them back. I'd love for you to start here. Pre-order today and you'll get the full bonus library, including the Digital Discernment Guide and Family Rhythm Template, so you can start this week instead of waiting for the book to ship.
3.
Coasting (19-32)
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YOUR FAMILY IS COASTINGFirst: this is not a verdict on you as a mom. You took a two-minute quiz and answered honestly. That already tells me you're paying attention, and paying attention is where every turnaround starts.Here's what your score is really saying. Faith isn't gone from your home—it's just stopped being the thing that shapes it. Culture, screens, and the calendar have quietly taken the lead, and it doesn't look like rebellion. It looks like normal life. That's the hidden deception.The good news is that drift is not a one-way street. Families lead their kids back all the time. Not with perfection, but with a few intentional shifts made on purpose.That's what The Hidden Deception: Raising Kids Who Don't Drift From Jesus will walk you through, step by step.Pre-order it today, then go back and register for the bonuses so you can start with the Digital Discernment Guide and Family Rhythm Template right away.