Which Part of Stepmom Life Is Taking the Most From You Right Now?

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Quiz Questions

1.
It's Sunday night. What are you dreading about the week ahead?
- A.
  The version of me I turn into by Wednesday
- B.
  Handling all of it while he has no idea what all of it is
- C.
  The kid who's going to act like I'm not there
- D.
  Whatever comes out of the other house this week
2.
If someone handed you a solved problem tomorrow morning, which one would you pick?
- A.
  The schedule stops changing without warning
- B.
  I know exactly what I'm allowed to say to these kids
- C.
  I recognize myself again
- D.
  He sees what I'm doing without me having to explain it
3.
Something happened this week that's still sitting with you. What was it?
- A.
  A text or an email that ruined my whole day
- B.
  A moment where I didn't know if I should step in or stay out
- C.
  Something I said yes to that I did not want to say yes to
- D.
  Watching him not notice something I would have noticed instantly
4.
When does it hit hardest?
- A.
  Transition days. Drop-offs, pickups, the hours around them
- B.
  When I'm alone in the car after doing something nobody thanked me for
- C.
  When we're all in the same room and I still feel outside of it
- D.
  After the kids go to bed and we don't talk about any of it
5.
What have you looked up late at night?
- A.
  Whether what the other house is doing is even legal
- B.
  How to get your husband to back you up
- C.
  Whether it's normal to feel this way about your stepkids
- D.
  Stepmom burnout
6.
You get one hour with an expert. What are you asking about?
- A.
  How to stop overfunctioning before it costs me more
- B.
  How to get us on the same team without it becoming a fight
- C.
  What my actual role with these kids is supposed to be
- D.
  How to protect my peace when the conflict isn't ending
7.
Finish this. If I could say one thing out loud this week, it would be...
- A.
  I need you in this with me.
- B.
  I don't know where I fit here.
- C.
  I am not okay.
- D.
  This has to stop.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
The Other House
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Take back the ground the conflict is taking.You did not sign up to have your calendar, your marriage, and your mood set by someone else's decisions. But that's where you are. This track is about what you can control when the conflict does not end, and how to stop bracing for the next thing.START WITH THESE THREEAmy J.L. Baker, PhD • Monday at 6 PM ETSamantha Boss • Wednesday at 10 AM ETDarlene A. Sparks • Wednesday at 12 PM ETYOUR WHOLE TRACKParental Alienation Isn't the End of the Story • Amy J.L. Baker, PhD • Mon 9/14 at 6 PM ETYou Shouldn't Have to Referee: The Parenting Plan That Tames the Chaos • Samantha Boss • Wed 9/16 at 10 AM ETNot Every Battle Deserves Your Fight: Standing Firm and Staying Calm • Darlene A. Sparks • Wed 9/16 at 12 PM ETThe Cult of Nice: Why Stepmoms Abandon Their Boundaries • Terri Cole • Wed 9/16 at 2:30 PM ETUsing Stepfamily Conflict as a Catalyst for Our Own Change • Rachel Dunne, ALC • Thurs 9/17 at 1 PM ETCORE SESSIONS INCLUDED IN EVERY TRACKOut Loud, On Purpose: The Rulebook Nobody Gave You • Cameron Normand • Mon 9/14 at 2:00 PM ETStepmom SOS VIP Coaching Session* • Barb Goldberg • Wed 9/16 at 11 AM ETLet AI Remember the Cleats and Write the Hard Text • Sarah Dooley • Wed 9/16 at 1 PM ETThe Proof Is In: Three Top Researchers on Why Stepfamily Life Is So Hard • Jensen, van Eeden-Moorefield, and Oliver-Blackburn • Wed 9/16 at 3:30 PM ETStepfamily Day Block Party • Cameron Normand • Wed 9/16 at 6 PMNot Mom, Not a Guest: The Real Place of a Stepmom • Dr. Patricia Papernow • Fri 9/18 at 10:30 AM ETUnstuck: LIVE Coaching • Tues. 9/15 at 7 PM & Thurs. 9/17 at 5 PM ETNothing here is locked.If something in another track calls your name, go watch it!*Backstage Passholders only
2.
You and the Kids
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Know what your role actually is.Nobody handed you a job description. So you've been improvising, guessing when to step in, guessing when to back off, and getting a different answer from every person you ask. This track tells you what the role actually is, what authority you already have, and what has to be earned.START WITH THESE THREESarah R. Moore • Tuesday at 5 PM ETAmanda Gonzales, LCMCH and Morgan Lindahl • Thursday at 11 AM ETJennifer Powell and Alex Willumsen • Friday at 12:30 PM ETYOUR WHOLE TRACKIt's Not Just You: Why Stepmom Resentment Is Normal • Mindy Kyle • Mon 9/14 at 3 PM ETOne Table, Two Cultures: Blending Families, Honoring Identity, and Staying Curious • Amy Nesbitt • Tue 9/15 at 3 PM ETThe Authority That's Already Yours: What Stepmoms Can Claim on Day One • Sarah R. Moore • Tue 9/15 at 5 PM ETCalm Isn't a Personality Trait: ADHD, Stepmom Life, and Steadying Yourself • Jennie Anderson • Tue 9/15 at 6 PM ETThe Kids Who Stay: Helping Your Ours Baby Through the Goodbyes • Amanda Gonzales, LCMCH and Morgan Lindahl • Thu 9/17 at 11 AM ETUsing Stepfamily Conflict as a Catalyst for Our Own Change • Rachel Dunne, ALC • Thu 9/17 at 1 PM ETThe Space In Between: Identity and Belonging as a Childless Stepmom • Jennifer Powell and Alex Willumsen • Fri 9/18 at 12:30 PM ETCORE SESSIONS INCLUDED IN EVERY TRACKOut Loud, On Purpose: The Rulebook Nobody Gave You • Cameron Normand • Mon 9/14 at 2:00 PM ETStepmom SOS VIP Coaching Session* • Barb Goldberg • Wed 9/16 at 11 AM ETLet AI Remember the Cleats and Write the Hard Text • Sarah Dooley • Wed 9/16 at 1 PM ETThe Proof Is In: Three Top Researchers on Why Stepfamily Life Is So Hard • Jensen, van Eeden-Moorefield, and Oliver-Blackburn • Wed 9/16 at 3:30 PM ETStepfamily Day Block Party • Cameron Normand • Wed 9/16 at 6 PMNot Mom, Not a Guest: The Real Place of a Stepmom • Dr. Patricia Papernow • Fri 9/18 at 10:30 AM ETUnstuck: LIVE Coaching • Tues. 9/15 at 7 PM & Thurs. 9/17 at 5 PM ETNothing here is locked.If something in another track calls your name, go watch it!*Backstage Passholders only
3.
You and Your Partner
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Stop carrying this alone.He is not a bad guy. That's part of what makes this so hard to explain. The weight lands on you by default, and every time you try to name it, it comes out sounding like a complaint about his kids. This track is about the conversation you have not been able to have yet.START WITH THESE THREEAlex Harrison, LCSW • Monday at 5 PM ETDr. Rebecca Taylor • Thursday at 2:30 PM ETCasey and Meygan Caston • Thursday at 4 PM ETYOUR WHOLE TRACKNo One Comes Second: A Dad on Loving Again Without Replacing Anyone • José Rolón • Mon 9/14 at 4 PM ETYou Were Never Meant to Carry This Alone: Building a Real Team With Your Partner • Alex Harrison, LCSW • Mon 9/14 at 5 PM ETIs This Mine to Carry? Boundaries Every Stepmom Needs • Dr. Rebecca Taylor • Thu 9/17 at 2:30 PM ETYours, Mine, and What If: The Money and Estate Answers Every Blended Family Needs • Drea Haire, Kacie Swartz, and Tara Yukawa • Thu 9/17 at 3 PM ETSaying Sorry Isn't the Whole Story: How Strong Couples Repair and Reconnect • Casey and Meygan Caston • Thu 9/17 at 4 PM ETCORE SESSIONS INCLUDED IN EVERY TRACKOut Loud, On Purpose: The Rulebook Nobody Gave You • Cameron Normand • Mon 9/14 at 2:00 PM ETStepmom SOS VIP Coaching Session* • Barb Goldberg • Wed 9/16 at 11 AM ETLet AI Remember the Cleats and Write the Hard Text • Sarah Dooley • Wed 9/16 at 1 PM ETThe Proof Is In: Three Top Researchers on Why Stepfamily Life Is So Hard • Jensen, van Eeden-Moorefield, and Oliver-Blackburn • Wed 9/16 at 3:30 PM ETStepfamily Day Block Party • Cameron Normand • Wed 9/16 at 6 PMNot Mom, Not a Guest: The Real Place of a Stepmom • Dr. Patricia Papernow • Fri 9/18 at 10:30 AM ETUnstuck: LIVE Coaching • Tues. 9/15 at 7 PM & Thurs. 9/17 at 5 PM ETNothing here is locked.If something in another track calls your name, go watch it!*Backstage Passholders only
4.
Just You
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Find your way back to yourself.You did not lose yourself all at once. It went a little at a time, in the yeses you did not mean and the moments you swallowed something to keep the day moving. And the strange part is that from the outside it looks like you're managing fine. This track is about the woman doing the managing.START WITH THESE THREEMindy Kyle • Monday at 3 PM ETTerri Cole • Wednesday at 2:30 PM ETAlyssa Kirk • Thursday at 2 PM ETYOUR WHOLE TRACKIt's Not Just You: Why Stepmom Resentment Is Normal, and How to Stop the Spiral • Mindy Kyle • Mon 9/14 at 3 PM ETOut Loud and Unapologetic: Owning Your Voice When Stepfamily Life Keeps You Small • Jessica Frew • Tue 9/15 at 4 PM ETThe Cult of Nice: Why Stepmoms Abandon Their Boundaries, and How to Stop • Terri Cole • Wed 9/16 at 2:30 PM ETBeing Human Doesn't Make You a Bad Stepmom • Tammy J • Thu 9/17 at 12 PM ETWhat Stepmoms Are Afraid to Admit: The Real Reason You Burn Out • Alyssa Kirk • Thu 9/17 at 2 PM ETThe Hidden Cost of Stepfamily Stress • Jamie Scrimgeour • Fri 9/18 at 11:30 AM ETCORE SESSIONS INCLUDED IN EVERY TRACKOut Loud, On Purpose: The Rulebook Nobody Gave You • Cameron Normand • Mon 9/14 at 2:00 PM ETStepmom SOS VIP Coaching Session* • Barb Goldberg • Wed 9/16 at 11 AM ETLet AI Remember the Cleats and Write the Hard Text • Sarah Dooley • Wed 9/16 at 1 PM ETThe Proof Is In: Three Top Researchers on Why Stepfamily Life Is So Hard • Jensen, van Eeden-Moorefield, and Oliver-Blackburn • Wed 9/16 at 3:30 PM ETStepfamily Day Block Party • Cameron Normand • Wed 9/16 at 6 PMNot Mom, Not a Guest: The Real Place of a Stepmom • Dr. Patricia Papernow • Fri 9/18 at 10:30 AM ETUnstuck: LIVE Coaching • Tues. 9/15 at 7 PM & Thurs. 9/17 at 5 PM ETNothing here is locked.If something in another track calls your name, go watch it!*Backstage Passholders only

Which Part of Stepmom Life Is Taking the Most From You Right Now?

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