Red Flag Relationship Checkup

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  They frequently say one thing but do another.

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
• 2.
  They pressure me to move faster than I feel comfortable moving.

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
• 3.
  They dismiss, mock, or punish me when I express a boundary.

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
• 4.
  They avoid accountability and blame other people for nearly every conflict.

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
• 5.
  They try to isolate me from family, friends, church, or trusted support.

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
• 6.
  Their communication includes insults, humiliation, intimidation, or threats.

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
• 7.
  They are excessively jealous, controlling, or demanding of my location and passwords.

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
• 8.
  They are excessively jealous, controlling, or demanding of my location and passwords.

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
• 9.
  They minimize dishonesty, secrecy, inappropriate relationships, or unfaithfulness.

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
• 10.
  They pressure me to compromise my faith, convictions, purity, or values.

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
• 11.
  I often feel confused, anxious, fearful, or emotionally unsafe around them.

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
• 12.
  They apologize, but the same harmful behavior continues without meaningful change.

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
• 13.
  They disrespect service workers, former partners, family members, or authority figures.

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
• 14.
  They make major promises very early but resist consistent, responsible action.

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often
• 15.
  Trusted people who care about me have expressed serious concerns about this relationship.

  • A.
    Never
  • B.
    Rarely
  • C.
    Sometimes
  • D.
    Often

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  A Few Warning Signs Reported

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  Your answers show relatively few recurring warning signs. Continue observing patterns over time, maintain healthy boundaries, and don’t ignore new concerns as they arise.
• 2.
  Some Warning Signs Present

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  Your answers suggest that a few concerning patterns may be showing up in the relationship. This does not automatically mean the relationship is unhealthy, but it is a good reason to slow down, pay closer attention to consistency, and avoid explaining away behavior that continues to make you uncomfortable.
• 3.
  Several Warning Signs Present

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  Your answers indicate that there are several warning signs showing up in this relationship. This does not mean you have to make a rushed decision, but it does mean it is important to take these patterns seriously. Repeated concerns should not be overlooked, especially if they are affecting your peace, emotional well-being, or sense of safety.
• 4.
  High Number of Warning Signs

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  Your answers suggest that there may be a high number of warning signs present in this relationship. These patterns should be taken seriously, especially if they are affecting your peace, emotional well-being, spiritual health, or personal safety. This may be a sign that the relationship is unhealthy and needs honest evaluation.