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Your Partnership Needs a Reset
Your results suggest your Chief of Staff partnership isn't currently creating the leverage it should.You may still be carrying too much of the coordination, decision-making, follow-through, or organizational navigation yourself. Your Chief of Staff may be working hard and delivering important work, but the partnership itself may not yet be operating at a truly strategic level.Before concluding that you have the wrong person, look at the conditions surrounding the role.Consider:Is it clear what your Chief of Staff owns?Do they have the access and authority needed to operate effectively?Have you given them permission to challenge you and tell you the truth?Are you delegating outcomes, or primarily delegating tasks?Do you have a regular way to surface expectations, tensions, and changing priorities?Sometimes the issue is capability. But often, the partnership simply hasn't been designed intentionally enough.Your next move:Have a candid reset conversation with your Chief of Staff. Get clear about what you each need from the partnership, where trust or clarity may be breaking down, and what would need to change for this relationship to create significantly more leverage.A Resource for Your Next StepI wrote The Handshake Meeting around a simple belief: high-performing partnerships don't happen by accident. They require clarity about expectations, the ability to tell each other the truth, and shared ownership for how the partnership works. If your results surfaced an opportunity in your Chief of Staff partnership, the Handshake Meeting is designed to support exactly this kind of work.Explore The Handshake Meeting on AmazonWant to go deeper?I'm Laurie Arron, an executive coach, former Chief of Staff, and best-selling author. I spent 27+ years in leadership at AT&T and served as Chief of Staff to three senior executives. Today, I advise senior leaders and Chiefs of Staff on building the clarity, trust, and ways of working that allow executive partnerships to perform at their best.