Are You Ready for a Serious Relationship?
Most people want a relationship but are you ready for one? Relationships sound great, but they actually require work to make it work. Are you ready to make a serious commitment? Take this quiz to find out.
Quiz Questions
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1.How well do you know yourself?
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A.Very well, I know my likes, passions and what I'm good at(Correlates to: Yes)
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B.I know some, but I'm still learning about myself(Correlates to: Almost Ready)
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C.It's gonna take me some time to figure out who I am(Correlates to: Not Yet)
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2.Do you like yourself?
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A.Yes, heck, I love myself(Correlates to: Yes)
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B.Most days(Correlates to: Almost Ready)
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C.Not really(Correlates to: Not Yet)
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3.Why do you want a relationship?
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A.For companionship and to have a partner in life(Correlates to: Yes)
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B.To have someone to love and to love me back(Correlates to: Almost Ready)
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C.To have someone to make me feel good(Correlates to: Not Yet)
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4.Your lover wants to move to a new city but you are happy where you are. What do you do?
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A.Break up(Correlates to: Not Yet)
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B.End up doing what they want even if it doesn't make you happy(Correlates to: Almost Ready)
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C.Talk about it and try to figure out what's best for both of you(Correlates to: Yes)
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5.You want Mexican food for dinner but your partner wants American. What do you do?
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6.How trusting are you?
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A.I have issues with trust(Correlates to: Not Yet)
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B.I've been hurt before but I know you have to give people chances(Correlates to: Yes)
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C.I'm pretty trusting as long as you prove trustworthy(Correlates to: Almost Ready)
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7.At the last minute your love tells you that they need you to come with them for an important work/family event. You already made plans with your friends. What do you do?
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A.Tell your love that they need to give you more notice and go out with your friends(Correlates to: Not Yet)
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B.Go with your love but make sure they know that they owe you one(Correlates to: Almost Ready)
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C.Go with your love and just reschedule with your friends(Correlates to: Yes)
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8.What kind of spouse do you want to be?
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A.I haven't really thought about it(Correlates to: Not Yet)
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B.The kind that will do anything for their spouse and is married to someone who would do the same(Correlates to: Yes)
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C.The best one I can(Correlates to: Almost Ready)
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9.What activities do you want to do with your partner?
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A.Pay bills, buy a house, raise kids, go on vacation, cook meals - day to day things(Correlates to: Yes)
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B.Movies, dinner, concerts, comedy shows, romantic weekends - things for just the two of us(Correlates to: Almost Ready)
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C.Clubs, dancing, drinking, parties, sex, chillin' at home - I want to have some fun(Correlates to: Not Yet)
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10.What's the thing your looking forward to the most about a relationship?
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A.Someone to be there for me and help me with things(Correlates to: Almost Ready)
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B.Being able to share things in my life with someone(Correlates to: Yes)
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C.Showing off my awesome partner(Correlates to: Not Yet)
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Quiz Outcomes
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1.YesYou are ready for a real relationship! You want it all, a great partner, love, companionship, and maybe even a family. You feel a relationship will enhance your life right now and that's a big part of why you want one. Remember, as wonderful as relationships are they do require changes to your life and you won't be able to do things that you used to do when you were single. Now you'll have someone who you need to work together with and consider them in your decisions. But that's just a part of being in a relationship.
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2.Not YetRelationships aren't for everyone and that's okay. If you do want a relationship then maybe it's just not the right time. You might have some soul searching to do or maybe you just got out of a relationship and need to spend some time alone. Relationships require work and sometimes you need to spend that energy on yourself. Don't worry, give it time and try to be the best version of yourself and if you still want a relationship later on, you will be better prepared for one.
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3.Almost ReadyYou are probably ready for a boyfriend or girlfriend but not quite marriage or lifetime commitment ready. That's okay, you may still be young or maybe there are just some things in life that you still want to accomplish. It's a lot easier to do certain things when you are single since you have more freedom, like travel, work or if you just want to sit around all day in your pj's then you can do that. Don't rush into things, enjoy this part of your life and use it to learn how to be a better spouse when you are ready for a bigger commitment.
