How much do you know about Couples Communication 

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Communication at a Glance 

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  1. How do you resolve an argument? 

  • A.
    We carefully listen to each other until we understand our needs

    (4 points)
  • B.
    We get over it without too much fuss and caress each other

    (3 points)
  • C.
    We simply ignore it and pretend it didn't happen

    (2 points)
  • D.
    There's hardly any resolution-we fight until the bitter end. 

    (1 points)
• 2.
  2. Do you often say things you regret later during arguments?

  • A.
    Never, we take care about what comes out of our mouths 

    (4 points)
  • B.
    Rarely, and we get over it

    (3 points)
  • C.
    Sometimes, but we ignore them

    (2 points)
  • D.
    Unfortunately, yes, we do it often

    (1 points)
• 3.
  3. Can you validate each other when you disagree?

  • A.
    Yes, we have absolutely no problem about that

    (4 points)
  • B.
    Yes, most times

    (3 points)
  • C.
    Sometimes, but we usually ignore each other's opinion

    (2 points)
  • D.
    No, we always fight to impose each one's opinion 

    (1 points)
• 4.
  4 Do you work to find a mutually satisfying resolution when an argument is over?

  • A.
    Yes, most times

    (4 points)
  • B.
    Yes, although its a compromise and we're not really happy about it. 

    (3 points)
  • C.
    No, we just forget about it until our next fight

    (2 points)
  • D.
    No, it's always me versus him or her

    (1 points)
• 5.
  5. Do you feel overwhelmed during arguments?

  • A.
    No, because we're always calm and rational

    (4 points)
  • B.
    No, because we are relaxed all the time

    (3 points)
  • C.
    Sometimes, but it's not that serious

    (2 points)
  • D.
    Yes, often

    (1 points)
• 6.
  6. How fast do you re-establish connection after an argument?

  • A.
    We never lose connection even if we have a conflict 

    (4 points)
  • B.
    Quite fast

    (3 points)
  • C.
    In a few hours 

    (2 points)
  • D.
    It takes days or weeks 

    (1 points)
• 7.
  7. Do you keep in touch during the day? 

  • A.
    Yes, all the time

    (4 points)
  • B.
    Yes, two or three times a day

    (3 points)
  • C.
    maybe once at most 

    (2 points)
  • D.
    We rarely do that 

    (1 points)
• 8.
  8. Is sweeping issues under the rug a habit in your relationship? 

  • A.
    No, because we talk about every issue while it's hot

    (4 points)
  • B.
    Sometimes, but we deal with those things when they start to pile up

    (3 points)
  • C.
    Unfortunately, yes

    (2 points)
  • D.
    Fighting is a bigger problem than sweeping issues under the rug

    (1 points)
• 9.
  9. Do you often hurt each other’s feelings?  

  • A.
    Not really, because we tend to ignore each other

    (2 points)
  • B.
    Unfortunately yes

    (1 points)
  • C.
    No, we take care to be gentle even when we disagree

    (4 points)
  • D.
    It rarely happens

    (3 points)
• 10.
  10. Do you ever bring up past issues in your current arguments?

  • A.
    Never because we know its a bad strategy

    (4 points)
  • B.
    Rarely

    (3 points)
  • C.
    We don't even bother to do that anymore

    (2 points)
  • D.
    Often

    (1 points)

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  0 to 13 points:

  Could Use Work

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  I know that communicating is not the easieast thing in the world. Keep reading on our blog and I am sure you will find treasures to help you and your partner really connect.
• 2.
  14 to 27 points:

  Doing Ok 

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  Good job!!! You are doing pretty good on your communication. Stay tuned to see what more you can learn.
• 3.
  28 to 40 points:

  Expert

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  Congratulations!!! You really seem to know how to communicate with your partner.