You have a dismissal relationship style. People with a dismissal style, while retaining a generally negative view of others, are confident with themselves. A dismissive person generally does not get anxious but rather focuses their energy on avoidance. They will also not like to seek help, even if it is warranted. This desire to not seek help originates from an innate lack of trust in others, and this causes them to be self-reliant, sometimes to a fault. It can be hard to determine the origins of one's dismissive nature, especially if it is congenital. They don't care about a lot.