Quiz Questions
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1.I led someone on and then never called back.
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A.I did that(Correlates to: Player/Temptress)
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B.It happened to me(Correlates to: Victim)
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C.I always communicate how I am feeling with my partners.(Correlates to: Successful Single)
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2.I stood someone up that I wasn’t that interested in.
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A.I did that.(Correlates to: Player/Temptress)
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B.This happened to me.(Correlates to: Victim)
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C.I always do what I say I am going to do.(Correlates to: Successful Single)
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3.I have had sex with a person I was broke up with.
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A.Yes, and I initiated it.(Correlates to: Player/Temptress)
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B.Yes, and my partner initiated it.(Correlates to: Victim)
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C.No, when the relationship is over it is over.(Correlates to: Successful Single)
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4.I mistreated a person so that they would break up with me instead of me doing it.
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A.I did that(Correlates to: )
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B.I have had this happen to me(Correlates to: )
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C.I can end a relationship myself when the time comes.(Correlates to: )
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5.I let a relationship go on long after I knew it was over.
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A.I did that.(Correlates to: Player/Temptress)
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B.I have had this happen to me.(Correlates to: Victim)
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C.I can end a relationship myself when the time comes.(Correlates to: Successful Single)
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6.I lied to get out of a relationship.
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A.I did that.(Correlates to: )
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B.This happened to me.(Correlates to: )
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C.I am always honest about why I no longer want to be in a relationship.(Correlates to: )
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7.I have cheated in a relationship.
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A.I did that.(Correlates to: Player/Temptress)
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B.This has happened to me.(Correlates to: Victim)
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C.I never start a new relationship before the last one is over.(Correlates to: Successful Single)
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8.I stayed in a relationship that I was mistreated in.
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A.I did that.(Correlates to: Victim)
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B.Someone I dated let me mistreat them.(Correlates to: Player/Temptress)
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C.I mistreat anyone or let myself be mistreated.(Correlates to: Successful Single)
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9.I took a vacation with a lover that I planned on breaking up with.
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A.I did that.(Correlates to: Player/Temptress)
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B.This happened to me.(Correlates to: Victim)
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C.I never prolong the inevitable.(Correlates to: Successful Single)
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10.I have let a person assume that we were exclusive and used the excuse that we never agreed on this when caught cheating.
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A.I did that(Correlates to: Player/Temptress)
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B.This happened to me(Correlates to: Victim)
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C.I always let a person know when I am exclusive and when I'm not.(Correlates to: Successful Single)
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11.I have broken up with someone on a whim and regretted it later.
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A.I did that.(Correlates to: )
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B.I have this happen to me.(Correlates to: )
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C.I am always clear with how I feel in a relationship.(Correlates to: )
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12.I have broken up with someone in a text or email.
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A.I have done this.(Correlates to: Player/Temptress)
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B.I have had it happen to me.(Correlates to: Victim)
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C.I always meet with a person, if I feel that it is safe to do so.(Correlates to: Successful Single)
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13.I have gone back to a past lover at least once because I didn’t want to be alone.
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A.I did that(Correlates to: Player/Temptress)
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B.This has happened to me.(Correlates to: Victim)
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C.I am fine being alone and I am fine being by myself.(Correlates to: Successful Single)
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14.I have made unreasonable demands of someone, knowing that they wouldn’t/couldn’t follow through.
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A.I did that.(Correlates to: Player/Temptress)
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B.This has happened to me.(Correlates to: Victim)
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C.I never try to push someone away with my demands.(Correlates to: Successful Single)
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15.I have stayed with someone because of their looks or money without real attachment.
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A.I did that(Correlates to: Player/Temptress)
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B.I have had this happen to me.(Correlates to: Victim)
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C.I only stay with people I know that I am compatible with.(Correlates to: Successful Single)
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16.I have said that I wanted to be friends in a breakup, but never intended on following through.
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A.I did that.(Correlates to: Player/Temptress)
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B.This has happened to me.(Correlates to: Victim)
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C.I always follow through with what I say is going to happen.(Correlates to: Successful Single)
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17.I have criticized a partner for everything they did to push them away.
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A.I did that(Correlates to: )
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B.I have had this happen to me(Correlates to: )
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C.I am never overly critical and I address it when someone is that way with me.(Correlates to: )
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18.I have intentionally flirted with others in front of my partner to make them jealous and then accused them of being possessive
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A.I did that(Correlates to: )
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B.I have had this happen to me.(Correlates to: )
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C.I am always mindful of my partner's feelings.(Correlates to: )
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19.I have said I wanted a temporary separation, knowing that the relationship was over.
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A.I did that.(Correlates to: Player/Temptress)
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B.I have had this happen to me.(Correlates to: Victim)
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C.I call break-ups what they are, either temporary or permanent.(Correlates to: Successful Single)
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20.I have invented some reason to make a partner stay with me longer.
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A.I did that.(Correlates to: Player/Temptress, Victim)
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B.I have had this happen to me.(Correlates to: Victim)
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C.I believe in letting a person go when they ask for it and don't manipulate.(Correlates to: Successful Single)
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Quiz Outcomes
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1.Player/TemptressYou are someone who is not very good with breakups and you manipulate others to break up with you instead. You may lack some empathy for your partners. You may be leaving partners with unresolved baggage that are having trouble getting into other relationships.
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2.VictimYou are the victim. You have had very dramatic relationships that have probably left you wondering if you want to be in relationships at all. You may have a fear of getting into the next relationship because you don't know what will happen.
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3.Successful SingleCongratulation! You are a successful single. You are authentic in your relationships. You stay as long as you want. You get out when you are ready. You say what you want to say without regrets. You have no problems picking partners who treat you with respect.
