Which style of elopement is right for you and your partner?

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Which style of elopement is right for you and your partner?

You and your loved one have decided to elope — now it’s time to take this 2-minute quiz and discover which type of secret ceremony is right for you 💒

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What three words best describe your relationship?

Curious, adventurous, wayfaring

 

Practical, down-to-earth, uncomplicated

 

Outdoorsy, intrepid, courageous

 

Minimal, thoughtful, homey

 

1 / 9

Which of these tunes could be your theme song?

"Go Your Own Way" by Fleetwood Mac"You can go your own way / Go your own way"

 

"Rather Be" by Clean Bandit feat. Jess Glynne"When I am with you, there's no place I'd rather be"

 

"Such Great Heights" by the Postal Service"They will see us waving from such great heights / Come down now, they'll say"

 

"Start Me Up" by The Rolling Stones"If you start me up / If you start me up / I'll never stop"

 

2 / 9

If you and your partner were a dessert, which would you be and why?

Lemon cake — simple and unfussy. Plus, the slightly sour notes jazz up the most conservative event.

 

Cinnamon churros from a street vendor! Day or night, it'll get you pumped up to chase your dreams.

 

Chocolate chip cookie — comforting, perfectly sweet, maybe even a little nostalgic... bonus points when you break it in half and share it.

 

Homemade trail mix with loads of nuts, seeds, dried fruit, and a hint of dark chocolate that hits the spot on a hike!

 

3 / 9

What's your biggest challenge when planning your elopement?

Budgeting 💸 We could use a financial coach to help us start our life together on the right foot.

 

Photography 📸 We’d like to have beautiful shots of our marriage, but it ain’t easy choosing a photographer.

 

Location 📍 We’re having a hard time agreeing on where we want to get hitched.

 

Style 👠 Will we regret it if we choose a casual aesthetic over a formal fancy one or vice versa?

 

Keeping it a secret… it’s our day, and we’re doing it our way!

 

4 / 9

We want our ceremony to be ________.

Reflective of our love of nature — fresh air and hugging trees.

 

Simple and focused on our future rather than making the wedding a big deal.

 

A once in a lifetime picture-perfect dream escape.

 

A celebration for the two of us that represents exactly who we are.

 

5 / 9

When are you thinking of tying the knot?

We're thinking of going for it in the next 2 months... Just a few details to figure out.

 

We're 6 months to a year out and planning something we’ll have great memories of!

 

Next summer… we’d like to have favorable weather for an outdoor adventure.

 

We haven’t picked a date yet — we just got engaged!

 

6 / 9

You just won your dream honeymoon getaway — Here’s the deets...

A spring hike on the trails of Whistler Mountain. Picnic lunch from a backpack beside a babbling brook and a night under the stars.

 

Saint Lucia at a beachy wellness retreat. Spa days, yoga, tropical smoothies, and sunshine. What better way to bond than to totally chill out together?

 

A staycation with the perfect combo of time at home and hitting some of those local haunts.

 

A quick weekend away complete with our favorite art galleries and dinner downtown.

 

7 / 9

What’s an absolute DON’T for your wedding?

Fancy fussy details that a mother might try to talk you into.

 

Crowds make you nervous... just you and your baby saying your vows makes the most sense.

 

Being stuck inside is definitely not in the plan.

 

Anything boring or predictable... you’ve found your traveling compadre — who cares about the judgers?

 

8 / 9

You just won $5k on a scratch ticket — what do you and your fiancé do with it?

Plan a vacation to a beach town we’ve been talking about visiting.

 

We put the money toward a downpayment on our first house.

 

We invest in camping equipment and a roof rack to carry our sporting goods.

 

We add the money to our savings, so it can grow for the future.

 

9 / 9

Pack your bags! Your ideal Elopement is... A Dreamy Destination

You’re a couple of adventurers that found each other by way of wanderlust — your conversation often finds its way to dreams of your next trip and memories of past forays...

Your bookshelf is full of travel guides and telling stories about places you’ve been is one of your favorite pastimes.

Whether exotic locales or barefoot on the world’s finest beaches you love the mystery that’s around the next bend.

As long as you’re in each other’s company you can face anything the wide world throws at you because wherever you’re together is home!

When it comes to weddings, you’ve whispered to each other that you would tie the knot your own way without the encumbrances of obligation. You march to the beat of your own drum which is why you’re perfect for each other.

Your style is more about alluring surroundings than pleasing everyone else's sensibilities.

“Hold my hand and we are halfway there, hold my hand and I’ll take you there.”

— Maria, West Side Story

3 Things to Consider When Planning Your Dream Elopement

1. Photographs

Even the simplest of affairs deserves to be documented and these days even your phone can capture beautiful shots — so there’s no excuses. Why not find an expert to take the job of pictures off your plate completely so you can focus on each other?

No matter where you go in the world, there are photographers to fit in every budget. Keep the magic of your marriage story alive for generations to come with an album you're proud to pull out.

When you elope, pictures are primary because chances are you won’t have loads of friend paparazzi snapping every angle. The best way to find a photographer is by word of mouth — ask around and then check out a few portfolios!

2. Choose a style true to you

This is your chance to really be yourself — just because it’s a small affair doesn’t mean you can’t go as over the top as you would if there were 1000 on the guest list.

The fun part of eloping is you’re less likely to follow norms or feel bogged down by obligation. You may still choose a traditional white dress and a black tux, but many a couple has donned hiking boots and said their vows on a trail in the woods, barefoot on a sandy beach, or a long black gown under the Eiffel Tower — it’s all up to you!

Having a planner at every step can help you suss out the things that are truly important to the two of you so you don’t forget even the tiniest details.

3. Nosh, nibbles, and cocktails

We’ve all gotta eat (and drink), RIGHT? It could be a taco truck on the beach or canapes on silver platters — have fun with a fusion of your favorite flavors.

Date nights are a great way to learn about your partner’s cultural background… plan a weekly night on the town together to nail down a handful of dishes you’d like to include on your menu.

Don’t forget some bubbles 🍾

Happy Hitching...

Look at you, Lovers! I'm Hildy Green… CEO of Bells and Bouquets Event planning.

B & B Events superpower is creating authentic, unforgettable experiences. We get to know you and your dreams first — then jump into every juicy detail of plans for your epic day.

Let’s face it friends, the world did a whoopsie in 2020 and it’s changed the way couples are saying “I do”. Even though your shindig will look different than your pre-pandemic vision, it can still be full of all the same joyful surprises!

As a leader in elopement and wedding planning, we bring a special spark to weddings that look a little different than status quo.

We've been featured in event planning publications Magazine. We've also gotten shoutouts from Martha Stewart, New York Magazine, and Real Simple.

Make Your Show-Stopping Escape Share-Worthy with These Resources 👇

Want free guidance that'll elevate your union? Follow Us on Instagram. You'll get tons of tips about how to plan your brag-worthy secret nuptials. Every Monday, one of our wedding planners goes live to share what's trending in the ever-changing world of elopements.

Want to know how to make your big day absolutely flawless? Listen to our CEO's Podcast interview on Just Us Forever. Our CEO Jessa shares her go-to tactics for getting organized before you say “I do”, as well as the biggest pitfalls to avoid. Just listening to this episode can save you countless headaches, and possibly 100s of dollars.

Ready to start planning, like yesterday? Book a discovery call with our team. We'll help you dial in your bespoke details and calm your busy head.

Let's Make Some Memories

Now that you know where to start with planning, check your inbox for more insights on your quiz results. You'll also get the free guide "The 7 Secrets To Making Your Elopement Memorable."

Over the next week, we'll be lighting up your inbox with more tips for you to plan your escape with ease. We're so excited for you to take this big step toward the rest of your life with your soul mate.

We've got a feeling it's gonna be glittery!

Shhh, Your ideal Elopement is... A Courthouse Ceremony

You two are a rare couple that realizes your wedding day isn’t an end to dating, but rather a profound beginning to being fully committed to each other.

You’ve decided on an intimate civil service at the courthouse — but that doesn’t mean you can’t have a bash for your tribe later!

Let’s face it, a private meaningful ceremony just for the two of you is what you want but you’ll never hear the end of it if there isn’t a celebration at some point.

Talk to your trusted wedding planner about your wishes for a simple service and then the kind of party you’d like to throw to celebrate with friends and family.

“Oh the marriage of your spirits here has caused Him to remain. For whenever two or more of you are gathered in His name. There is Love, there is Love.”

— The Wedding Song by Noel Stookey

3 Things to Consider When Planning Your Dream Elopement

1. Photographs

Even the simplest of affairs deserves to be documented and these days even your phone can capture beautiful shots — so there’s no excuses. Why not find an expert to take the job of pictures off your plate completely so you can focus on each other?

No matter where you go in the world, there are photographers to fit in every budget. Keep the magic of your marriage story alive for generations to come with an album you're proud to pull out.

When you elope, pictures are primary because chances are you won’t have loads of friend paparazzi snapping every angle. The best way to find a photographer is by word of mouth — ask around and then check out a few portfolios!

2. Choose a style true to you

This is your chance to really be yourself — just because it’s a small affair doesn’t mean you can’t go as over the top as you would if there were 1000 on the guest list.

The fun part of eloping is you’re less likely to follow norms or feel bogged down by obligation. You may still choose a traditional white dress and a black tux, but many a couple has donned hiking boots and said their vows on a trail in the woods, barefoot on a sandy beach, or a long black gown under the Eiffel Tower — it’s all up to you!

Having a planner at every step can help you suss out the things that are truly important to the two of you so you don’t forget even the tiniest details.

3. Nosh, nibbles, and cocktails

We’ve all gotta eat (and drink), RIGHT? It could be a taco truck on the beach or canapes on silver platters — have fun with a fusion of your favorite flavors.

Date nights are a great way to learn about your partner’s cultural background… plan a weekly night on the town together to nail down a handful of dishes you’d like to include on your menu.

Don’t forget some bubbles 🍾

Happy Hitching...

Look at you, Lovers! I'm Hildy Green… CEO of Bells and Bouquets Event planning.

B & B Events superpower is creating authentic, unforgettable experiences. We get to know you and your dreams first — then jump into every juicy detail of plans for your epic day.

Let’s face it friends, the world did a whoopsie in 2020 and it’s changed the way couples are saying “I do”. Even though your shindig will look different than your pre-pandemic vision, it can still be full of all the same joyful surprises!

As a leader in elopement and wedding planning, we bring a special spark to weddings that look a little different than status quo.

We've been featured in event planning publications Magazine. We've also gotten shoutouts from Martha Stewart, New York Magazine, and Real Simple.

Make Your Show-Stopping Escape Share-Worthy with These Resources 👇

Want free guidance that'll elevate your union? Follow Us on Instagram. You'll get tons of tips about how to plan your brag-worthy secret nuptials. Every Monday, one of our wedding planners goes live to share what's trending in the ever-changing world of elopements.

Want to know how to make your big day absolutely flawless? Listen to our CEO's Podcast interview on Just Us Forever. Our CEO Jessa shares her go-to tactics for getting organized before you say “I do”, as well as the biggest pitfalls to avoid. Just listening to this episode can save you countless headaches, and possibly 100s of dollars.

Ready to start planning, like yesterday? Book a discovery call with our team. We'll help you dial in your bespoke details and calm your busy head.

Let's Make Some Memories

Now that you know where to start with planning, check your inbox for more insights on your quiz results. You'll also get the free guide "The 7 Secrets To Making Your Elopement Memorable."

Over the next week, we'll be lighting up your inbox with more tips for you to plan your escape with ease. We're so excited for you to take this big step toward the rest of your life with your soul mate.

We've got a feeling it's gonna be glittery!

Your ideal Elopement is... A Walk in the Woods.

You’re a couple of outdoorsy romantics that would happily trade your dress shoes in for trekking boots and hit the trails.

Of course you’ll want to spend one of the most memorable days of your life under a canopy of trees. Sharing the stage with the birds and the bees is exactly how you’d have it.

Even a woodsy elopement can feel daunting as you step into planning details. But, never fear — the right experienced sidekick (aka. planner) can make it all look easy and have you loving every minute leading up to your big day.

“I love your feet because they have wandered over the earth and through the wind and water until they brought you to me.”

– Pablo Neruda, Your Feet

3 Things to Consider When Planning Your Dream Elopement

1. Photographs

Even the simplest of affairs deserves to be documented and these days even your phone can capture beautiful shots — so there’s no excuses. Why not find an expert to take the job of pictures off your plate completely so you can focus on each other?

No matter where you go in the world, there are photographers to fit in every budget. Keep the magic of your marriage story alive for generations to come with an album you're proud to pull out.

When you elope, pictures are primary because chances are you won’t have loads of friend paparazzi snapping every angle. The best way to find a photographer is by word of mouth — ask around and then check out a few portfolios!

2. Choose a style true to you

This is your chance to really be yourself — just because it’s a small affair doesn’t mean you can’t go as over the top as you would if there were 1000 on the guest list.

The fun part of eloping is you’re less likely to follow norms or feel bogged down by obligation. You may still choose a traditional white dress and a black tux, but many a couple has donned hiking boots and said their vows on a trail in the woods, barefoot on a sandy beach, or a long black gown under the Eiffel Tower — it’s all up to you!

Having a planner at every step can help you suss out the things that are truly important to the two of you so you don’t forget even the tiniest details.

3. Nosh, nibbles, and cocktails

We’ve all gotta eat (and drink), RIGHT? It could be a taco truck on the beach or canapes on silver platters — have fun with a fusion of your favorite flavors.

Date nights are a great way to learn about your partner’s cultural background… plan a weekly night on the town together to nail down a handful of dishes you’d like to include on your menu.

Don’t forget some bubbles 🍾

Happy Hitching...

Look at you, Lovers! I'm Hildy Green… CEO of Bells and Bouquets Event planning.

B & B Events superpower is creating authentic, unforgettable experiences. We get to know you and your dreams first — then jump into every juicy detail of plans for your epic day.

Let’s face it friends, the world did a whoopsie in 2020 and it’s changed the way couples are saying “I do”. Even though your shindig will look different than your pre-pandemic vision, it can still be full of all the same joyful surprises!

As a leader in elopement and wedding planning, we bring a special spark to weddings that look a little different than status quo.

We've been featured in event planning publications Magazine. We've also gotten shoutouts from Martha Stewart, New York Magazine, and Real Simple.

Make Your Show-Stopping Escape Share-Worthy with These Resources 👇

Want free guidance that'll elevate your union? Follow Us on Instagram. You'll get tons of tips about how to plan your brag-worthy secret nuptials. Every Monday, one of our wedding planners goes live to share what's trending in the ever-changing world of elopements.

Want to know how to make your big day absolutely flawless? Listen to our CEO's Podcast interview on Just Us Forever. Our CEO Jessa shares her go-to tactics for getting organized before you say “I do”, as well as the biggest pitfalls to avoid. Just listening to this episode can save you countless headaches, and possibly 100s of dollars.

Ready to start planning, like yesterday? Book a discovery call with our team. We'll help you dial in your bespoke details and calm your busy head.

Let's Make Some Memories

Now that you know where to start with planning, check your inbox for more insights on your quiz results. You'll also get the free guide "The 7 Secrets To Making Your Elopement Memorable."

Over the next week, we'll be lighting up your inbox with more tips for you to plan your escape with ease. We're so excited for you to take this big step toward the rest of your life with your soul mate.

We've got a feeling it's gonna be glittery!

Your ideal Elopement is...A Homey Hangout.

Who says you have to leave the house to say "I do?" When you love your nest as much as you do — fluff it and feather it for a cozy connection.

You can’t imagine celebrating each other with any intention other than unsullied authenticity.

With a little help you can have fun transforming your space, no matter how humble. Candlelight and wildflowers can turn an ordinary space into a picture worthy wedding chapel.

Now’s the time to follow your instincts. there’s no place like home is your motto so it’s perfectly fitting that you’d make your commitment on your own turf.

“Once upon a time there was a boy who loved a girl, and her laughter was a question he wanted to spend his whole life answering.”

― Nicole Krauss, The History of Love

3 Things to Consider When Planning Your Dream Elopement

1. Photographs

Even the simplest of affairs deserves to be documented and these days even your phone can capture beautiful shots — so there’s no excuses. Why not find an expert to take the job of pictures off your plate completely so you can focus on each other?

No matter where you go in the world, there are photographers to fit in every budget. Keep the magic of your marriage story alive for generations to come with an album you're proud to pull out.

When you elope, pictures are primary because chances are you won’t have loads of friend paparazzi snapping every angle. The best way to find a photographer is by word of mouth — ask around and then check out a few portfolios!

2. Choose a style true to you

This is your chance to really be yourself — just because it’s a small affair doesn’t mean you can’t go as over the top as you would if there were 1000 on the guest list.

The fun part of eloping is you’re less likely to follow norms or feel bogged down by obligation. You may still choose a traditional white dress and a black tux, but many a couple has donned hiking boots and said their vows on a trail in the woods, barefoot on a sandy beach, or a long black gown under the Eiffel Tower — it’s all up to you!

Having a planner at every step can help you suss out the things that are truly important to the two of you so you don’t forget even the tiniest details.

3. Nosh, nibbles, and cocktails

We’ve all gotta eat (and drink), RIGHT? It could be a taco truck on the beach or canapes on silver platters — have fun with a fusion of your favorite flavors.

Date nights are a great way to learn about your partner’s cultural background… plan a weekly night on the town together to nail down a handful of dishes you’d like to include on your menu.

Don’t forget some bubbles 🍾

Happy Hitching...

Look at you, Lovers! I'm Hildy Green… CEO of Bells and Bouquets Event planning.

B & B Events superpower is creating authentic, unforgettable experiences. We get to know you and your dreams first — then jump into every juicy detail of plans for your epic day.

Let’s face it friends, the world did a whoopsie in 2020 and it’s changed the way couples are saying “I do”. Even though your shindig will look different than your pre-pandemic vision, it can still be full of all the same joyful surprises!

As a leader in elopement and wedding planning, we bring a special spark to weddings that look a little different than status quo.

We've been featured in event planning publications Magazine. We've also gotten shoutouts from Martha Stewart, New York Magazine, and Real Simple.

Make Your Show-Stopping Escape Share-Worthy with These Resources 👇

Want free guidance that'll elevate your union? Follow Us on Instagram. You'll get tons of tips about how to plan your brag-worthy secret nuptials. Every Monday, one of our wedding planners goes live to share what's trending in the ever-changing world of elopements.

Want to know how to make your big day absolutely flawless? Listen to our CEO's Podcast interview on Just Us Forever. Our CEO Jessa shares her go-to tactics for getting organized before you say “I do”, as well as the biggest pitfalls to avoid. Just listening to this episode can save you countless headaches, and possibly 100s of dollars.

Ready to start planning, like yesterday? Book a discovery call with our team. We'll help you dial in your bespoke details and calm your busy head.

Let's Make Some Memories

Now that you know where to start with planning, check your inbox for more insights on your quiz results. You'll also get the free guide "The 7 Secrets To Making Your Elopement Memorable."

Over the next week, we'll be lighting up your inbox with more tips for you to plan your escape with ease. We're so excited for you to take this big step toward the rest of your life with your soul mate.

We've got a feeling it's gonna be glittery!